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Before You Speak Ill of Others

Charlie Wingard

Charlie Wingard

Associate Professor of Practical Theology at Reformed Theological Seminary Jackson and Senior Pastor of First Presbyterian Church, Yazoo City, Mississippi

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Before you speak ill of others, consider Charles Simeon’s wise counsel:

“The longer I live, the more I feel the importance of adhering to the rules which I have laid down for myself in relation to such matters. 

“1st To hear as little as possible what is to the prejudice of others. 

“2nd To believe nothing of the kind till I am absolutely forced to it. 

“3rd Never to drink into the spirit of one who circulates an ill report. 

“4th Always to moderate, as far as I can, the unkindness which is expressed towards others. 

“5th Always to believe, that if the other side were heard a very different account would be given of the matter. 

“I consider love as wealth; and as I would resist a man who should come to rob my house so would I a man who would weaken my regard for any human being.”

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Source: Hugh Evan Hopkins, Charles Simeon of Cambridge  (Eerdmans, 1977), 134.


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